These are some of the things I have learned in the past 11 years about being married:
6. No matter how much I want him to read my mind, he can't and won't ever be able to. I have to talk to him and let him know what is on my mind!
5. Going to the temple often helps to keep the spirit in our home and the eternal perspective I need each day to keep from getting bogged down by the little stuff.
4. Dates are a must! I need time with just him, no kids.
3. Compromise!! I can't always have my own way.
2. Admitting when I am wrong is a good thing.
And the most important thing I have learned,
1. Perspective! The time I am most happy is when I have a positive outlook on my marriage. When I look at all of the great things that Dusty does for me on a daily basis I can't help but smile! He doesn't always do everything perfect but when I am focused on all of the positives I am grateful for a fantastic husband and I can't help but feel as though I want to serve him! The times that I have focused on the things Dusty hasn't done or the things he didn't do right I feel negative. My situation is no different, just my perspective. The cool thing is that my marriage can grow or become damaged and it is in my control!
Thanks Dusty for being patient with me. I love you so much! I am excited to see what the next 11 + years has in store for us!

